Well, is it possible to get a perfect match for ourselves....Most of the people of my age thinks that they should get someone good looking, wealthy, fair, etc...
but is it really true saying perfect or so called ideal match for us? Or is it just in our imagination that we will get the Best. Is there any definition of an ideal match....lets find it out...........
A person visited the government matchmaker for marriage, and requested to an officer 'I am looking for a spouse. Please help me to find a suitable one.' The officer said, 'Your requirements, please.' 'Oh, good looking, polite, humorous, sporty, knowledgeable, good in singing and dancing. Willing to accompany me the whole day at home during my leisure hour, if I don't go out. Telling me interesting stories when I need companion for conversation and be silent when I want to rest.' The officer listened carefully and replied, 'I understand you need television.'
There is a saying that a perfect match can only be found between a blind wife and a deaf husband, because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the husband and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife. Many couples are blind and deaf at the courting stage and dream of perpetual perfect relationship. Unfortunately, when the excitement of love wears off, they wake up a nd discover that marriage is not a bed of roses. The nightmare begins.
No one is perfect in this world...its upto us how we make up the things. For marriage I think the most important thing is to give your partner enough space, to take care of each others choices & develop trust. And ofcourse, at the end compatibility between the two is something very important and is one of the keys to have a perfect relation. After all, its all "Kismat Konnection!!!!" what sayz!!!!!:-):-)
Thursday, August 7, 2008
Monday, August 4, 2008
PERSONAL PERCEPTION !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Different people have different perception. One man's meat could be another man's poison. A couple bought a donkey from the market. On the way home, a boy commented, 'Very stupid. Why neither of them rides on the donkey? 'Upon hearing that, the husband let the wife ride on the donkey. He walked besides them. Later, an old man saw it and commented, 'The husband is the head of family. How can the wife ride on the donkey while the husband is on foot?' Hearing this, the wife quickly got down and let the husband ride on the donkey.
Further on the way home, they met an old Lady. She commented, 'How can the man ride on the donkey but let the wife walk. He is no gentleman.'
The husband thus quickly asked the wife to join him on the donkey. Then, they met a young man. He commented, 'Poor donkey, how can you hold up the weight of two persons. They are cruel to you.' Hearing that, the husband and wife immediately climbed down from the donkey and carried it on their shoulders.
It seems to be the only choice left. Later, on a narrow bridge, the donkey was frightened and struggled. They lost their balance and fell into the river. You can never have everyone praise you, nor will everyone condemn you. Never in the past, not at present, and never will be in the future.
Thus, do not be too bothered by others words if our conscience is clear....
Further on the way home, they met an old Lady. She commented, 'How can the man ride on the donkey but let the wife walk. He is no gentleman.'
The husband thus quickly asked the wife to join him on the donkey. Then, they met a young man. He commented, 'Poor donkey, how can you hold up the weight of two persons. They are cruel to you.' Hearing that, the husband and wife immediately climbed down from the donkey and carried it on their shoulders.
It seems to be the only choice left. Later, on a narrow bridge, the donkey was frightened and struggled. They lost their balance and fell into the river. You can never have everyone praise you, nor will everyone condemn you. Never in the past, not at present, and never will be in the future.
Thus, do not be too bothered by others words if our conscience is clear....
Friday, August 1, 2008
RAIN!!!!!!!!!
When the word RAIN comes in to my mind, it gives me a real good feeling. Something in this world are really meant for love and RAIN is one of them I really love it. Such a beautiful creation by GOD. U know what just for a moment we forget all our worries and try to mix into that awesome weather. Such a lovely smell of soil, that no one can beat that ever.
What a beautiful creation "RAIN" is........thousands of drops dropping down with the musical tune, which gives us such a soothing effect in our mind that no music in this world can do the same..........it seems that GOD is really happy and he wants to share his happiness with this world in the form of RAIN and want us to forget all our fret and troubles and just want to see every one happy on this earth, Be it human being or any other creature of this world....
I must say that we are lucky who are enjoying God's one of the best creation known as RAIN........
What a beautiful creation "RAIN" is........thousands of drops dropping down with the musical tune, which gives us such a soothing effect in our mind that no music in this world can do the same..........it seems that GOD is really happy and he wants to share his happiness with this world in the form of RAIN and want us to forget all our fret and troubles and just want to see every one happy on this earth, Be it human being or any other creature of this world....
I must say that we are lucky who are enjoying God's one of the best creation known as RAIN........
Something About Shefali...........
Hi..............
Well, finally i am here, where i wanted to come since last few months and got the chance to create my own blog!!!
Ooops!! I forgot to introduce myself....I am Shefali, and people used to call me shelly, shefu and ofcourse shefali. I am B.tech and did my engineering from Nagpur. Some real great time of my life which I spent there...........an ultimate experience of my life. I am new in this blogging world so hopefully will get support from all who are here since ages!!!!!!!!
Well, finally i am here, where i wanted to come since last few months and got the chance to create my own blog!!!
Ooops!! I forgot to introduce myself....I am Shefali, and people used to call me shelly, shefu and ofcourse shefali. I am B.tech and did my engineering from Nagpur. Some real great time of my life which I spent there...........an ultimate experience of my life. I am new in this blogging world so hopefully will get support from all who are here since ages!!!!!!!!
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