Dont Sacrifice your personality for love....

I am writing on this topic, as have seen so many friends of mine who have done this.. Love is something when people dont no where are they going...they just move in the flow of love. They even dont care that they are changing themselves in order to make the other one happy and nt to create any mishap in the relation.... But is it worth to change your personality for the one whom you love??

What I believe is that one should not sacrifice his/her personality, identity for love, infact if it is true love then you just dont have to loose something. Infact you will only be adding values in your personality. Love is like a sand as much as you try to hold them sooner it will get away from you....so just be yourself, love yourself and believe in love. True love make their own way......

What's Love -- A Feeling OR A Commitment!!!!!!!!!!

Well i think initially love is a feeling; that u feel good when someone is around , just a good feeling whenever u see yourself with him, whenever u talk to him. Everything seems to be alright when you are with him, no tensions no worries, as if a feeling develops when u go to temples or some holy place. Some sort of purity and sanity in your mind and heart.When ur mind only think about him, be it a crowded place or be u r alone. Someone who is always by your side in an attempt to ensure that your smile is "ON"....Someone who cares for u, pampers u and scolds u at times but u like that and knowingly u do some mistakes in order to get his possessiveness....these are just feelings and they are all pure !!!!!

Commitment is something that you are ready to take this relation forever or u would like to have your partner presence in your life forever. It’s easy to love without commitment. People do it all the time.But commitment implies bonding in such a way that one promises to keep the fires of love burning indefinitely.

You can love someone and tell him “I love you” and you’re telling the truth. But how much do you love him? Is it enough to marry him? Is it enough to die for him? THE GREATEST TEST OF TRUE LOVE is commitment. And the greatest indicator of deep love is deep commitment. I have heard people say all the right words, make all the right moves and pledge undying love, only to walk away weeks or months later. Were they in love? Sure they were. But not enough to allow them to hold strong in their love. Not enough to keep a commitment regardless of the pain....