I am writing on this topic, as have seen so many friends of mine who have done this.. Love is something when people dont no where are they going...they just move in the flow of love. They even dont care that they are changing themselves in order to make the other one happy and nt to create any mishap in the relation.... But is it worth to change your personality for the one whom you love??
What I believe is that one should not sacrifice his/her personality, identity for love, infact if it is true love then you just dont have to loose something. Infact you will only be adding values in your personality. Love is like a sand as much as you try to hold them sooner it will get away from you....so just be yourself, love yourself and believe in love. True love make their own way......
Saturday, April 25, 2009
Thursday, January 22, 2009
What's Love -- A Feeling OR A Commitment!!!!!!!!!!
Well i think initially love is a feeling; that u feel good when someone is around , just a good feeling whenever u see yourself with him, whenever u talk to him. Everything seems to be alright when you are with him, no tensions no worries, as if a feeling develops when u go to temples or some holy place. Some sort of purity and sanity in your mind and heart.When ur mind only think about him, be it a crowded place or be u r alone. Someone who is always by your side in an attempt to ensure that your smile is "ON"....Someone who cares for u, pampers u and scolds u at times but u like that and knowingly u do some mistakes in order to get his possessiveness....these are just feelings and they are all pure !!!!!
Commitment is something that you are ready to take this relation forever or u would like to have your partner presence in your life forever. It’s easy to love without commitment. People do it all the time.But commitment implies bonding in such a way that one promises to keep the fires of love burning indefinitely.
You can love someone and tell him “I love you” and you’re telling the truth. But how much do you love him? Is it enough to marry him? Is it enough to die for him? THE GREATEST TEST OF TRUE LOVE is commitment. And the greatest indicator of deep love is deep commitment. I have heard people say all the right words, make all the right moves and pledge undying love, only to walk away weeks or months later. Were they in love? Sure they were. But not enough to allow them to hold strong in their love. Not enough to keep a commitment regardless of the pain....
Commitment is something that you are ready to take this relation forever or u would like to have your partner presence in your life forever. It’s easy to love without commitment. People do it all the time.But commitment implies bonding in such a way that one promises to keep the fires of love burning indefinitely.
You can love someone and tell him “I love you” and you’re telling the truth. But how much do you love him? Is it enough to marry him? Is it enough to die for him? THE GREATEST TEST OF TRUE LOVE is commitment. And the greatest indicator of deep love is deep commitment. I have heard people say all the right words, make all the right moves and pledge undying love, only to walk away weeks or months later. Were they in love? Sure they were. But not enough to allow them to hold strong in their love. Not enough to keep a commitment regardless of the pain....
Saturday, December 27, 2008
Thursday, August 7, 2008
CREATING PERFECT RELATIONSHIPS ?
Well, is it possible to get a perfect match for ourselves....Most of the people of my age thinks that they should get someone good looking, wealthy, fair, etc...
but is it really true saying perfect or so called ideal match for us? Or is it just in our imagination that we will get the Best. Is there any definition of an ideal match....lets find it out...........
A person visited the government matchmaker for marriage, and requested to an officer 'I am looking for a spouse. Please help me to find a suitable one.' The officer said, 'Your requirements, please.' 'Oh, good looking, polite, humorous, sporty, knowledgeable, good in singing and dancing. Willing to accompany me the whole day at home during my leisure hour, if I don't go out. Telling me interesting stories when I need companion for conversation and be silent when I want to rest.' The officer listened carefully and replied, 'I understand you need television.'
There is a saying that a perfect match can only be found between a blind wife and a deaf husband, because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the husband and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife. Many couples are blind and deaf at the courting stage and dream of perpetual perfect relationship. Unfortunately, when the excitement of love wears off, they wake up a nd discover that marriage is not a bed of roses. The nightmare begins.
No one is perfect in this world...its upto us how we make up the things. For marriage I think the most important thing is to give your partner enough space, to take care of each others choices & develop trust. And ofcourse, at the end compatibility between the two is something very important and is one of the keys to have a perfect relation. After all, its all "Kismat Konnection!!!!" what sayz!!!!!:-):-)
but is it really true saying perfect or so called ideal match for us? Or is it just in our imagination that we will get the Best. Is there any definition of an ideal match....lets find it out...........
A person visited the government matchmaker for marriage, and requested to an officer 'I am looking for a spouse. Please help me to find a suitable one.' The officer said, 'Your requirements, please.' 'Oh, good looking, polite, humorous, sporty, knowledgeable, good in singing and dancing. Willing to accompany me the whole day at home during my leisure hour, if I don't go out. Telling me interesting stories when I need companion for conversation and be silent when I want to rest.' The officer listened carefully and replied, 'I understand you need television.'
There is a saying that a perfect match can only be found between a blind wife and a deaf husband, because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the husband and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife. Many couples are blind and deaf at the courting stage and dream of perpetual perfect relationship. Unfortunately, when the excitement of love wears off, they wake up a nd discover that marriage is not a bed of roses. The nightmare begins.
No one is perfect in this world...its upto us how we make up the things. For marriage I think the most important thing is to give your partner enough space, to take care of each others choices & develop trust. And ofcourse, at the end compatibility between the two is something very important and is one of the keys to have a perfect relation. After all, its all "Kismat Konnection!!!!" what sayz!!!!!:-):-)
Monday, August 4, 2008
PERSONAL PERCEPTION !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Different people have different perception. One man's meat could be another man's poison. A couple bought a donkey from the market. On the way home, a boy commented, 'Very stupid. Why neither of them rides on the donkey? 'Upon hearing that, the husband let the wife ride on the donkey. He walked besides them. Later, an old man saw it and commented, 'The husband is the head of family. How can the wife ride on the donkey while the husband is on foot?' Hearing this, the wife quickly got down and let the husband ride on the donkey.
Further on the way home, they met an old Lady. She commented, 'How can the man ride on the donkey but let the wife walk. He is no gentleman.'
The husband thus quickly asked the wife to join him on the donkey. Then, they met a young man. He commented, 'Poor donkey, how can you hold up the weight of two persons. They are cruel to you.' Hearing that, the husband and wife immediately climbed down from the donkey and carried it on their shoulders.
It seems to be the only choice left. Later, on a narrow bridge, the donkey was frightened and struggled. They lost their balance and fell into the river. You can never have everyone praise you, nor will everyone condemn you. Never in the past, not at present, and never will be in the future.
Thus, do not be too bothered by others words if our conscience is clear....
Further on the way home, they met an old Lady. She commented, 'How can the man ride on the donkey but let the wife walk. He is no gentleman.'
The husband thus quickly asked the wife to join him on the donkey. Then, they met a young man. He commented, 'Poor donkey, how can you hold up the weight of two persons. They are cruel to you.' Hearing that, the husband and wife immediately climbed down from the donkey and carried it on their shoulders.
It seems to be the only choice left. Later, on a narrow bridge, the donkey was frightened and struggled. They lost their balance and fell into the river. You can never have everyone praise you, nor will everyone condemn you. Never in the past, not at present, and never will be in the future.
Thus, do not be too bothered by others words if our conscience is clear....
Friday, August 1, 2008
RAIN!!!!!!!!!
When the word RAIN comes in to my mind, it gives me a real good feeling. Something in this world are really meant for love and RAIN is one of them I really love it. Such a beautiful creation by GOD. U know what just for a moment we forget all our worries and try to mix into that awesome weather. Such a lovely smell of soil, that no one can beat that ever.
What a beautiful creation "RAIN" is........thousands of drops dropping down with the musical tune, which gives us such a soothing effect in our mind that no music in this world can do the same..........it seems that GOD is really happy and he wants to share his happiness with this world in the form of RAIN and want us to forget all our fret and troubles and just want to see every one happy on this earth, Be it human being or any other creature of this world....
I must say that we are lucky who are enjoying God's one of the best creation known as RAIN........
What a beautiful creation "RAIN" is........thousands of drops dropping down with the musical tune, which gives us such a soothing effect in our mind that no music in this world can do the same..........it seems that GOD is really happy and he wants to share his happiness with this world in the form of RAIN and want us to forget all our fret and troubles and just want to see every one happy on this earth, Be it human being or any other creature of this world....
I must say that we are lucky who are enjoying God's one of the best creation known as RAIN........
Something About Shefali...........
Hi..............
Well, finally i am here, where i wanted to come since last few months and got the chance to create my own blog!!!
Ooops!! I forgot to introduce myself....I am Shefali, and people used to call me shelly, shefu and ofcourse shefali. I am B.tech and did my engineering from Nagpur. Some real great time of my life which I spent there...........an ultimate experience of my life. I am new in this blogging world so hopefully will get support from all who are here since ages!!!!!!!!
Well, finally i am here, where i wanted to come since last few months and got the chance to create my own blog!!!
Ooops!! I forgot to introduce myself....I am Shefali, and people used to call me shelly, shefu and ofcourse shefali. I am B.tech and did my engineering from Nagpur. Some real great time of my life which I spent there...........an ultimate experience of my life. I am new in this blogging world so hopefully will get support from all who are here since ages!!!!!!!!
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